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I do think tone and attitude would help a lot. I was at a camp a couple weeks ago where the majority of the staff are American, and I did a lot of listening to the divides in your politics. One thing that struck me, though, is that there doesn’t seem to be recognition that the tone and posture and attitude of your politicians trying to ‘get Canada to do something’ (and as a Canadian, I’m all for critiquing our government and trying to find the best ways to do things… and I was in search and rescue for years. The funding and programs and participants do need addressing across the board.) is… really like a bully. It’s not kind, it’s not helpful, it’s not focused on communal good. It’s focused on self, treating issues as winners and losers/zero sum, and anger.

So back to the people in question, both from America. Polarized. Complete political opposites. But the same in an important way- willing to excuse meanness, bullying, and posturing on their own side. Willing to let some gross things go to get what their side wants. The ‘I don’t love this guy/girl/whoever… but what I want is more important.’

That’s really scary. I tried really hard to listen and understand, but I came back feeling discouraged and worried. It was a different tone than I’ve ever heard. And it starts with the culture created both on the ground and in politics. I suspect that until that attitude changes, things will just get worse.

So with all that- thanks for your own tone! I appreciated it very much!

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